A mother who is going to jump down a building,,,,,,,,,,

隔了一夜，我总算可以冷静地思考是非对错。或许该说对不起的人是我。你有错吗？好像有又好像没有。怎么说呢？germaine很多时间花在和你聊天，做为一个朋友，你难道不应该劝她，说她，骂她，甚至主动cut the conversation吗？好像你没有做到。the longest,two n a half hours,the shortest, half n hour.most of the time, one hour plus.假期还可以。我只是把话说得indirectly一点。我告诉妹妹，不要浪费哥哥的时间，其实，大家在浪费大家的时间。不是吗？可是，有错吗？好像也没有。你们会说，我们这样很relax啊！一面聊天一面做功课，很好啊！可是，在我这个妈妈看来，那绝对影响功课。天才和白痴的分别在于时间。如果我说你是天才，但我又不给你任何时间去证明你的才能，结果你什么也不是。时间是唯一可以造就天才，成就自己的东西。你教妹妹edit conversation,基本上好像也没错。不是吗？ 你可能会想；你是怎么当妈妈的？我是在教你女儿电脑lei, 有错吗？好像有，又好像没有。就算你不教她，迟早她也会。但，我要说的是；不一样就是不一样。太早懂不该懂的东西，就是错.妹妹从你那里学来的，如果她只是用在edit你跟她的对话，那，我又有什么好不放心的？你这么乖。问题是她也会用来edit一些别的朋友的对话。那我就更难保护到她了。现在，你明白了吗？总而言之，言而总之，硬硬要说你有错，好像对你很不公平，但，说你没错，妹妹却又因为有了你这个朋友而变"smarter“了，那不好。起码，对只有13岁的她来说，是不好的。明白吗？孩子。妹妹的成绩没有你和Leonard那样好， 她需要花更多的时间在功课上。我这样说，你能了解吗？妹妹在某些方面来说，要比Leonard聪明许多。如果她的聪明用在不当的地方那会害了他。Now, i am talking nonsence. ya,now you understand ,right? anyway,thanks a lot for been her friend.You are Leo's best frend, is somebody that i can trust.Sorry for letting u so unhappy.dont die ha,try all my 拿手的 dishes, then u can die peacefully.ok?

These conversations make our day

Funny. dem funny!After June holiday, our whole family are so used to have sky joining us for dinner, outing(to yew tee etc).now, the school had started. I was shocked that in the morning, my husband will start the day with the conversation , like"is kevin coming over to our place today?" or, if he already knew that sky is coming tmr, early in the morning he will said something like"what good dish are you going to make for that boy? i jealous."haha. dem funny ok? like we are doing something for our family member.Last night i blog something about sky. I think fr Leo side, u know a bit why i am so angry. Afterall, i am not really angry w u that much.i am angry w germaine most! She is so spoiled.hai, dont mention about the past. I deleted e blog liao. hey, sky, help auntie watch out this little ugly duckling, she will listen to you then parrents. Today my fridge spoiled. Before they send the new one to my house, i was wondering what to do w all the food that i had kept in the freezer? then, i think of sky again. if....where is he now? dinner out again? Oh,no,不可以！Thinking of to give him a call and ask him to come over to our place,i can cook some nice food for him. funny. everybody in this family cares about him so much.why?he must be casing a spell on us. we are so willing to accept it. anw, he is Leo's best friend, germaine's new friend,to my husband and i, he is a lovely little friend.We learnt from him the three chinese worrds,“不可以！”哈哈.bye.

孩子，哪有坏的？(sky/vince)

今天，家里来了两个孩子。除了sky ,还有vince. 左看右看， 上看下看，每个孩子在我眼中都很乖嘛！！老实说，好学校的孩子都乖。虽然有时候他们不太听话/頂嘴/争辩。就是这样才叫人窝心嘛。他们有自己的想法，不轻易受人左右。sky比较内向。我喜欢逗他。不过，有时太过分又怕他生气。vince呢，今天我才有机会真正跟他说到话。健谈的一个孩子。我一直很喜欢研究长相学。 这孩子，长得很好。只是，----像这样的长相，感情路绝对会比别人辛苦很多。但，从他听电话的对话中，可以知道，很有教养的孩子。也没什么心机。耳相很高，是个聪明绝顶的人。‘天庭’饱满，女生娘娘命，男生绝对好！我告诉过我儿子，以后，一个一个和他分析长相，好玩！！！！ 哈哈。晚安了，孩子们。明天会更好！

a crying mother

Hai, some sort like .....crying. And in fact, i cried a lot for the pass two days.
turns to be very weak. I always tell my kids to be strong, and yet i just cant hold myself. I share my feeling w my son. we talked the whole night. like very close friend. I ever talked whole night with my daughter too.not only kids, sometimes, adult can be worst then a kids. as a mother, i need to bend to the needs of my kids. I have done everything for them ,hope that they understand that i love them as much as pacific ocean.(the biggest) Sometimes,not because of the generation gap, just because we are not willing to open up our heart. A crying mother asking for help. may be, the best mentors are -----------our beloved kids!

一种感动，一种情怀(给sky)

最近，在男校的儿子带同学回来作专题作业。我家像是被龙卷风刮过一样。一团糟！！！！！！ 首先，是因为专题作业做很久，耗去整个假期。其次，我家有女初长成。言语作风大胆前卫。这是我事后才知道的。才几天功夫，和哥哥的同学已像几十年的好朋友。 话说， 这男生长得眉清目秀，很讨人喜欢。只是；；；；？ 怎么说呢？就是appearance给人一种淡淡的忧伤。很少 开怀大笑，很让人心疼。孩子；不就是应该每天乐开怀的大笑吗？但，让我吃惊的是，在网上聊天室，你是完全不一样的一个人。cheerful and joker 的人。左一个yey,右一个yey,说有多活泼就有多活泼！为什么现实中不做这样的你呢？我女儿，又是另外的一个你！每天要扮演不一样的自己，有多累啊！后来，知道你餐餐吃外面，更是整个心揪在一块儿，难过流下了妈妈的泪。真想把你当自己孩子一样的疼，给你吃最好的，把leo 的家当成你的家。 记住； you are one of the best boy in the whole world!!!!we love you very much.give you a big big hug!